Is This Anxiety… Or My Hormones? The Truth About Anxiety in Women Over 40

agfitnessandhealth
Mar 21
4 min read

If you’ve been feeling anxious lately—and you can’t quite explain why—you are not alone.

Maybe it’s come out of nowhere.

Maybe you’ve never struggled with anxiety before.

Or maybe it just feels different now… stronger, more frequent, harder to shake.

You might be asking yourself:

“Is this anxiety… or is it my hormones?”

As a women’s health coach and someone who has personally experienced this recently, I want to talk about it honestly—because more women over 40 are dealing with anxiety than ever before.

And most of them don’t realise why.

Why Anxiety Increases in Women Over 40

One of the most common but misunderstood symptoms of perimenopause and menopause is anxiety.

As we move into our 40s and 50s, key hormones like oestrogen and progesterone begin to fluctuate.

These hormones don’t just affect your reproductive system—they have a direct impact on:

Brain chemistry

Mood regulation

Stress response

Sleep quality

Emotional resilience

When oestrogen drops, it can affect serotonin (your “feel good” hormone).

When progesterone fluctuates, it can impact your ability to feel calm and relaxed.

The result?

👉 Increased anxiety

👉 Feeling on edge for no reason

👉 Racing thoughts

👉 Poor sleep

👉 Low mood or overwhelm

So if you’re thinking, “Why do I suddenly feel anxious all the time?”

There is a real, physiological reason for it.

Is It Hormones… Or Lifestyle?

Here’s the truth most people won’t tell you:

It’s usually both.

Hormonal changes create the foundation—but your lifestyle can either support you… or make it worse.

Many women over 40 are juggling:

Busy careers

Family responsibilities

Lack of sleep

High stress levels

Skipping meals or under-eating

Too much caffeine

Little time for themselves

Sound familiar?

This combination creates what I call the “perfect storm for anxiety.”

And I see it all the time in the women I coach.

My Personal Experience With Anxiety (And Why I’m Sharing This)

I want to be honest with you…

Recently, I’ve experienced anxiety myself.

That unsettled, on-edge feeling.

The racing thoughts.

The sense that something isn’t quite right—even when everything is.

And I’ll be honest…

It’s horrible.

But it also made me stop and reflect.

Because even with all the knowledge I have around fitness, health and wellbeing…

I still needed to come back to the basics.

And that’s what I want to help you do too.

How To Reduce Anxiety Naturally (For Women Over 40)

You don’t need to overhaul your entire life.

But small, consistent changes can make a huge difference to your nervous system and overall wellbeing.

1. Prioritise Gentle Movement

Exercise is powerful—but high-intensity training all the time can increase stress hormones.

Balance it with:

Walking

Pilates

Stretching

Mobility work

2. Support Your Nervous System

Your body needs signals that it is safe.

Simple practices like:

Deep breathing

Slowing down

Taking breaks

Being present

…can help bring you out of “fight or flight” mode.

3. Eat To Support Hormones

Skipping meals or under-eating can increase cortisol (your stress hormone).

Focus on:

Regular meals

Protein intake

Nutrient-dense foods

Stable blood sugar

4. Reduce Stimulants

Caffeine and alcohol can make anxiety symptoms worse—especially during perimenopause.

Even small changes here can have a big impact.

5. Create Space For You

This is the one most women avoid…

But it’s often the one you need the most.

Time to rest.

Time to reset.

Time to breathe.

Candlelight Pilates: A Powerful Way To Reduce Anxiety Naturally

If your body feels tense and your mind won’t switch off, this is exactly why I created my Candlelight Pilates sessions in St Ives, Cambridgeshire.

This is not a high-energy workout.

It’s a nervous system reset.

During this session, you will: ✔ Gently stretch and release tension

✔ Improve mobility and flexibility

✔ Slow your breathing

✔ Calm your mind

✔ Leave feeling lighter and more relaxed

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Bring a mat, blanket and pillow… and give yourself permission to slow down.

Unstoppable You: A 12-Week Programme For Women Over 40

If you’re ready to go beyond quick fixes and truly take back control of your health…

My Unstoppable You 12-week programme is designed specifically for women over 40 navigating:

Hormonal changes

Fat loss struggles

Low energy

Anxiety and overwhelm

Inside the programme, we focus on: ✔ Strength training for women over 40

✔ Nutrition for hormone balance

✔ Fat loss without extremes

✔ Mindset and confidence

✔ Accountability and support

Because this stage of life isn’t about doing more…

It’s about doing what actually works for your body now.

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✨ Small group coaching for personalised support

You Are Not Broken

If you’ve been feeling anxious lately…

Please hear this:

You are not broken.

You are not failing.

And you are not alone.

Your body is changing.

Your life is full.

And sometimes, it all becomes overwhelming.

But there are ways to feel better.

To feel calmer.

To feel like yourself again.

Final Thoughts: What Is Your Anxiety Trying To Tell You?

Instead of fighting anxiety…

Try asking:

👉 What does my body need right now?

👉 Where do I need to slow down?

👉 What can I do to support myself better?

Because sometimes…

Anxiety isn’t the problem.

It’s the message.

About Andrea Gaynor

Hey, I’m Andrea, founder of AG Fitness and Health. I help women over 40 feel strong, confident, and more like themselves again through fitness, nutrition, and self-care that actually fits into real life. I’ve been in the fitness game for 27+ years — and I get how things change in your 40s and beyond.

My style is supportive, no fluff, and always focused on helping you feel empowered and supported every step of the way. 💪

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